baby daddy is having a new baby with a new baby mamma

Alisa - posted on 03/08/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )

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So my daughters father has now gotten another girl pregnant. He isn't really involved in my daughters life that much but yet we are having to go to court over custody. How am I supposed to handle a new girl and a new baby? Do I accept the new baby even though it isn't part of my family? What do I do? I still care about my daughters father but I don't trust him and we most likely won't ever get back together, so how do I handle this?

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Lisa - posted on 07/28/2011

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You need to be respectful and accept the new baby because #1 nothing was that baby's fault #2 that is your child's sibling.

Chelsie - posted on 03/31/2011

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my sons dad has 2 other sons with another woman. at first i was at the same place as you, but i have hung out with her and got to know her and now feel alot better about my son going with them because i know and trust her. we are friends and sometimes hang out with the kids even without their father there.

hope this helps. good luck and i hope everything works out!!!

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Tara - posted on 01/08/2013

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ive been with my boyfriend 6 months.. & im pregnant. we are happy ive known him for longer than we have been dating i know it seems soon. well he has a 6 year old daughter and i dont have any, this is my first. when we first got together i heard about his baby mama bein prego again and that shes sayin its his, however she was married i guess at the time she concieved the baby and he swore he hasnt slept with her since sept. of 2011.. and she had he baby today i guess i got the news. so he should be in the clear right? this man has the nerve to lie to me the whole time we're together for him to write me on fb while hes at work sayin he dont know what to do, the baby kinda looks like him, but he swears on his daughter he dont remember "bein with" her around the time she got pregnant.. how do u not remember? am i an idiot.. saying that her new baby girl looks just like his daughter when she was born. she comes down from GA to FL where we live on the 17th to see her family down here and to get the dna test. how am i suppose to feel? our relationship is amazing and we're happy we're having a child together.. but i cant help but feel he knew it was a possibility all along.

Donaji - posted on 06/30/2012

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im the opposite my bf has a 3 yr old son with another girl and him and i have a 10 month old and they have a hate relatioship now for two yrs. when she found out about him and i she threaten him with many things but he brushed it off. he is very involved with his 3 yr old and my son. we have his other son every weekend and any day he asks to see him. i feel like it might be hard for her but i try my best to just be her sons friend. im not trying to be his other mommy. and when it comes down to have anything to do with him i step aside and let them deal with it. i totally respect her even though we dont like each other but i guess you can say we maintain civil for the boys sake.

Tiffany - posted on 02/06/2012

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i am going threw the same thing i just had a baby 3 mmonths ago and the girl is due in a few weeks when i was 4 months i was told she was pregnant i cried for days because when i found out i was pregnant he jumped into a relationship with her and he told me to get an abortion. he has a 4 yo daughter already from an ex girlfriend and just started becoming involved with my son...i don't know how to react to this other child as me and the other baby mama get along well...me and baby mama #3 are trying to get along but i don't know how it is going to work out because the first baby mama has told me she wants everything to be about her so i don't know and i feel that he doesn't have that much of a connection with my son and i'm affraid he will stop caring about my son when she has he son....it's hard and i've spent nights thinking and crying....i am so hurt as well after i had my son i felt like i couldn't even be happy because i just want him in my son's life and i feel he won't be for much longer....he never was there my whole WHOLE pregnancy i had a stressful pregnancy and when i was in labor he was away so he wasn't there...so i have hate that he will be here to see his other son born but wasn't here for his 1st son's birth

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