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Baby Daddy....New Boyfriend???

Mercedes - posted on 12/27/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Well, I got pregnant at 16 I am now 18 and I have a one year old daughter I gave her father a choice to just be in her life or pay child support he hasnt been in her life and yet after all this time I dont feel like going through all the courts for child support....what should I do???? Should I just leave him alone and let him live his life as I live mine with our child?? And I am currently dating but I dont know if I should bring him around my daughter??? Is it ok to bring new boyfriends around your child?

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Alisa - posted on 02/25/2010

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You need to just forget about the old boyfriend. If he ain't gunna be around to help you raise your daughter then you don't need him. I think that he should pay, but going through the courts is such a hassle to do. Plus you don't get all the money you should get. And as for the dating slowly go into bringing him around your daughter. Make sure he knows you have a kid but don't push him into meeting her. Yeah it's okay to bring boyfriends around as long as you take things slow.

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