Gaby - posted on 05/30/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
Hi to all,
my daughter was born march 13 2001 me and her father separated after she turned 4...and I got married again to a wonderful man 3 years later and now she's 11 and hates my husband,I know it must be hard for her not having her father n mother together anymore but I tried explaining to her in every possible way that I can, why me and her father can't be together anymore but she just don't get it..she's rude to my husband, she rolls her eyes at him whenever he's talking or saying something, she back-answers him, if he try to be affectionate with her she pushes him away and tells him not to touch her and she'll get up and go to her room or anywhere where she don't have to be in his presence..And the worst part is; she gets frustrated and in a bad mood if she sees me near him so at home I try not to get too close to him so she she don't get upset...The situation has gotten to the point where my husband don't even talk to her anymore and he prefers to change and leave the house and come back late at night when she's already sleeping, this been going on like for 5 months now..I feel like i'm losing my marriage because of this situation and I don't know what to do to better the it, i've ask her many times as why she hates my husband so much and she just says "she don't know" I've giving the best of me for her to be happy and make sure she don't need of anything but I'm not receiving anything back from her in return...her father don't help with anything, he only calls like once a month just to say to her "hi, how are you" and that's it.
I can't think of anything else to do or say to her to make things better for her, me & my husband feels like everything has gotten out of control, I tried taking away the things from her that she most love and that's not working at this point I don't know what else to do, any suggestions someone...PLEASE HELP!!!