Lisa - posted on 03/24/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )
Hi - I have a 5 year old daughter we adopted at birth. We have had one contact in 5 years with birthmom, do not know birthdad. We also have a son - adopted at birth and have some contact with a birth relative. Now my daughter is almost obsessed with knowing her birth-family, especially her birthfather. It is a hard conversation to have - that we do not know him.
My heart breaks at times for her because she wants contact but I feel I need to respect her birthmothers privacy. Any thoughts?