Cheyenne - posted on 12/21/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
im 20 and my boyfriend(and my sons father) is 21. my son will be 11 months on the 30th. he already wants another baby. hes been talking about it for about 4 months already. im not sure if i want another one right now or within the next couple months. im a stay at home mom and its been very difficult for me.i have no help from my family due to my brother threatening my son so we dont see my parents anymore. and i dont have a car so i cant go anywhere. we live in an area where it really isnt safe to go walking out. my boyfriend works 40 hours a week with 2 days working graveyard shifts so he sleeps alot. he does help me but not as much as he should. im with my son all the time and i dont know if i can handle 2 babies 18-20 months apart or however long it takes. my son doesnt sleep through the night either. we dont have much money and thats what worries me also. my boyfriend barley makes enough to cover bills and get the things our son needs. and if we add another baby its going to be more expensive.
i went through a very hard labor with my son and it scared me really bad that if i think about having another one it will be a hard labor also. i know in the end its my decision but if someone else is going through this or has gone through this advice would be nice.