Alicia - posted on 07/13/2010 ( 21 moms have responded )
hey all im just wondering, can babies get
spoiled while there still babies
i mean you hear and read that you can hold your
baby everytime it cries cause it cant be spoiled
but i still have doubts. . . .
i mean dont went your baby cries and cries
and you change its diaper and you feed it, burp it
do everything you can and it stops crying
then you put him/her down and they cry
and cry again until you pick them up again
isnt that like giving into him/her
dont get me wrong i know
its ok to hold your babies and bond with them
but sumtimes they just have to learn to entertain themselves
for awhile, mommys got to do stuff and cant hold you all day.
right. what do you women do.
if i do everything i can in my nature to keep him from crying
and then once i put him down, and he starts crying again
and i pick him up, n he stops, n then i put him down n he cries
then i just let him cry a good 2mins at that.
and most of the time he will cry and then slowly stop
and then just start lookin around or cry himself to sleep.
what do you guys think of this.
am i the only who does this
are there others out there that do something different