having sex in the same room as my son

Sophie - posted on 01/19/2011 ( 8 moms have responded )

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ok........... me and my partner ar living in a house with his perents so our son is in our room.
my son sleeps through evry night at 7 months. me and my partner are having sex maybe 2 times a week but we feel slightly weaired doing it with our son in the same room. we dont have anywhere elce we could go and we fined it very hard to fined a babysitter so often for us to be able to have our own time.
dose any one have the same thing or have any ideas on what we can do.
thanks

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Felicia Neikolle - posted on 01/19/2011

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We live in our own apartment but our 4.5 month old li'l guy shares our room as well. At first, it does seem weird but it's no big deal. As long as he isn't in the bed with you, I don't see a problem with it at all! If he's sleeping then go for it!!! lol ... you'll find that after a little while you start counting down for bed time so you can be together! Our li'l man is our fourth together so trust me ... indulge in each other every chance you can!

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my son is 3.5 months old, my daughter is 18 months. my daughter sleeps in her own room (when she will LOL she likes our bed beter but we're trying to break her of that) and our son sleeps in his bassinet at the foot end of our bed. as long as both babies are sleeping and in their own beds, i dont have a problem having sex with them in the room. i bet it would be hard, bc its not like you can ask your partners parents to watch your son for a little while so you can get busy lol... but on the bright side, you're getting to have sex twice a week... which i would personally LOVE, my daughter has been very difficult lately and we've only had the opportunity 3 times in the past month, and once was only because my SIL took my daughter for a night.

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Princess - posted on 01/22/2011

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Try having sex in the shower where it is just you and your partner. That is what i call hot & wet sex.

Dora - posted on 01/21/2011

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If he sleeps through it then don't worry about it. We do the same thing and our son is 2 1/2 yrs old. You need to continue your relationship with your partner in order to have a nice balance in your life.Also what's nice is that at such nice ages if they were to catch you then you can always make something else and chances are they will believe you and not even realize what you were really doing.

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Don't worry as long as he's still ababy. sex between two loving partners is important. It helps melt away stress , pounds and sometimes it helps us feel like we're independent again. My life revolves around my kids but when I'm with my partner I feel like a woman again and it pulls me away from all the mommy duties or thoughts. So preoccuppied with how to make the kids happy we neglect ourselves. Take advantage of the time you get together.

Amanda - posted on 01/20/2011

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My husband and I are currently living with our in-laws. There house is fairly large, but our 16 month old son shares the room with us. When he was younger, I didn't care if we had sex while he was in the room asleep, but now that he's older, I find it more difficult. I think it might even disturb his sleep!

Tabitha - posted on 01/20/2011

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You could christin(sp.?) The living room, the bathroom, the kitchen, the hall, the dining room, and the laundry room. Then do it all over again! That way things never get boring and your son won't grow up telling his friends about the wierd noise mommy and daddy make in the bedroom! :)

Shannon - posted on 01/19/2011

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just block the view and be very quiet. but do try as he gets older to get him his own room

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