Alissa - posted on 09/28/2011 ( 14 moms have responded )
My daughter is 19 weeks old she recently had open heart surgery, and is doing well! During tho whole pregnancy i had to deal with my ex telling me to get an abortion or he would off himself! I have done pretty much everything alone! Its been a long road I love my daughter and i love my ex. He says he loves me n he loves our daughter very much but he has alot of anger towards me because i didnt help him by getting an abortion. How can he love her and also say that? He is unhappy with his life n how i have made him change. someone anyone please help i need some serious advice. I see my daughter and my future with him, how can we get past this? I still see the 3 of us together someday but this needs to be resolved what can i say to him to explain how much those words hurt? I tell him it hurts n he says you hurt me by not helping me!!! Any advice i will consider!