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People are so rude!

Renee - posted on 02/21/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I went to work the other day and a customer yelled through the other room "Renee, did you get a new haircut? Well, it makes your face look fat." I said what? He said he was just saying. He said real friends tell you the truth.

Well let me tell you something.....he wasn't even my friend. I cussed him out and told him to leave the office. I did go to the bathroom and cried myself silly though. My customers used to see me as so skinny and I come back from maternity leave....my daughter is 10 months old and I still havent lost the baby weight.....I still have about 10 pounds to go.....

But that hurt so bad....I know I'm not alone ladies.....But we can do this! Eat healthy and lose the weight. This is my 4th baby and the weight just fell off on my previous pregnancies....But not this one....It sucks!

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Indre - posted on 02/23/2010

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People are rude when they are jealous. The good thing is that in Lithuania people keep quiet if they are jealous. So if I get a new haircut, they would simply ignore this fact. This way I know I look good :)

Ashley - posted on 02/22/2010

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i know how u feel...it does suck. my son will be 8 months and i still have 20 left to go.....it's so depressing. i look at myself and i hate it. i walk everyday and have been eating healthier but it still doesnt seem to be going anywhere. i've lost 6 pounds so i guess thats a start but i just want to fit back into my old clothes again. i had 2 pregnancies back to back so that doesnt help. i would have cried too..thats so rude and some ppl need to learn when to keep their mouths shut!

Sarah - posted on 02/21/2010

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thats extremely rude how dare he say that to you!

our bodies change after going through pregnancy and child birth .. men should try it some time (i wish)
love what chelle's said about she says to them.

Chelle - posted on 02/21/2010

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Yes Renee people are rude... But dont let these ignorant jerks get to you... Definatly not a male one!!! He has never and will never be pregnant, give birth or know what it feels like to put on weight in pregnancy and struggle to get it off afterwards.... You are still the same person you always were and 10 pounds or not you are still beautiful... The next time someone says something rude to you just say what i say..." I may be overweight but i can lose weight.. But GOD your ugly theres nothing you can do about your FACE!!!! It always seems to shut them up for me.... :)

Chelle - posted on 02/21/2010

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how rude! i dont know what i would have done if someone said something that hurtful to me. mabey he should carry a baby for 9months and try and get back in shape so soon after lol....men have it so easy, what makes him think he has the right to say nasty things like that. normaly people only say stupid things like that to make themself feel better because they dont like there own body image.

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