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prego and unsure of how to do things???????????????

Ashley - posted on 07/09/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )

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i'm almost 5 months along and yet i'm worried cause i was reading and it was saying bout when they baby can start to hear, and bout when they baby is born it can turn it's head toward the voices it hears most and it makes me sad cause my child well not know it's real fathers voice. but it well know my boyfriends vocie mind you he ain't the dad. i mean it makes me happy in a way cause my boyfriend said he well be there for the kid, you know father figure type. i'm still lost tho?????????? i love my boyfriend and i'm glad i have him but it well be weird for me to send my child to see it's real father and the kid won't even know his voice...... i don't know what to do??????? yeah i know i have time but i worry bout it now HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Katie - posted on 07/09/2009

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I would just worry about the health of you and your baby right now. You will see after the baby is born how a relationship is going to be between the babies
father and the baby. No worries i know alot of people whos hubbies were in the military who were not there for most or all of their wifes pregnancies and the babies still have a great relationship with their father. So keep your spirits high and take care not to stress to much!

Helen - posted on 07/09/2009

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Try not to worry yourself to much on this.Yes babies do hear things going on outside and probably do recognise voices when they are born. My baby however did not show any preferece to those whos voices she heard and those she didn't.

I think you should concerntrate more on whats going to happen when baby is born hun not worry to much about what baby is hearing now.

Your baby will get to know his/her father when they are born if thats what you chose so don't worry about now.

Just make sure you look after yourself for the moment, thats more what the baby needs hun and you stressing will stress the baby.

Hope this helps

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