Romantic Evening Ideas.... (6 wk postpartum appt and have a sitter!!)

Brean - posted on 04/20/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I will be going to my 6 week postpartum appt on thursday and if all goes well, this will be the first time being intimate... post baby. Our daughter's godparents have agreed to babysit for a few hours so we can do dinner and a date... my fiance doesnt even know we have a sitter. I would really like to surprise him a romantic... sexual evening without crossing the line of being a bit tacky and predictable. (i.e. costume lingerie, flower petal walkway, etc.) PLEASE HELP!!

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AMANDA - posted on 04/22/2010

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Well here is a thought - First because it had hurt I use a bit of k-jelly to help ease the pressure. Also what you can do is set a towel in your bed with body scrub or massage oil - and rub his entire body from head to toe, with music set in the background. Then after that set a romantic bath for him and you wash him. Afterwhich you can have a candle light romantic dinner set up but not on the table place it one the foor on a nice sheet/quilt with candles surrounding and soft music and then reassure him of your love for him.... sometimes being intimate can be an emotional thing also..... Hope this helps

Elisha - posted on 04/21/2010

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I'm Sure our man will be happy just to get it on!! Mine was so excited about the 6 week check up for that reason. Just a warning the Dr gave me... It might hurt... It did for me but I wanted to please my husband so much. He understood and took things slow... which was great! Start my doing a sensual back rub! Enjoy and have fun!

Brean - posted on 04/20/2010

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Well we will be here at home, I will probably have dinner ready for him when he wakes up. (he works nights so he wakes up about 6 pm) and maybe a new bra and panty set... nothing too outrageous, I still dont have my "ideal" body back.

Brittany - posted on 04/20/2010

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Maybe try changing the place to get sexual...maybe act like a teen again and go out to a random place...idk just a thought to spice it up

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