weird sleeping issue

Brittany - posted on 02/25/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )

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My 2 month old son suddenly is extremely picky on how he goes to sleep for the night. He used to either nurse to sleep or would fall asleep while being cuddled. Now he'll scream if I offer him the breast. The only time he's content just being held and cuddled is if my husband (not me), thumps his back (like when you burp a baby).



I've tried just setting him down in his bassinet, both in our room away from the noise of what we are doing and in the livingroom with us; but he wont have any of that either. I've tried rocking him while offering the breast. He likes being covered by a blanket, but hates to be swaddled.



In the end he ends up falling asleep from sheer exhaustion. More over this only happens for night time. He naps just fine. Once I get him down for the night he sleeps great and has no problems falling asleep after his nighttime feeding.



I would like to be consistant, but what often works the night before doesn't the next night.



Does anyone have any ideas?

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Brittany - posted on 03/01/2012

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Thnanks everyone. I'm just used to either my daughter who screamed all the time, not this happy little baby who suddenly changes.



We did find that he loves the swing at the child center at the Y. So I'll try to find a small one at a consignment store.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 02/29/2012

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He is just trying to figure it all out. Schedules and consistency is great, but it sounds like he knows what he likes. Hey in a week, he may want the boob to fall back to sleep.

Emily - posted on 02/28/2012

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The only thing I can say is that babies change SO much in the first year in regards to sleep. Just when you get used to one thing, it changes again. It's like trying to find something in the dark.. you just keep trying new things till something works. And then it changes again. :) hang in there.

Brittany - posted on 02/27/2012

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Oh yeah he's getting milk alright. My let down is so much that he still coughs it up. He often pulls away get a good breath in.



I have thought about colic, I just would have thought that it would then bother him all day.

Rebekah - posted on 02/27/2012

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I agree with Lydia. Sounds like colic. Two of my kids acted the same way from about 7-11 every night. There was honestly nothing you could do to get them to really settle down until they'd just had enough. What I did was not even offer the breast until they had fallen asleep (shortly before midnight) b/c for some reason that always made things worse. Anyway, our pediatrician said it peaks around 6 weeks and then starts to get better, but for my two oldest kids it lasted a bit longer. Baby-wearing helped a little bit with my daughter, so you might try that. Good luck. Honestly, it will probably get better over time without really trying any tricks.

Lydia - posted on 02/27/2012

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this sounds like colic. at 2 months not unusual. my daughter seemed fine for the first few weeks and than started having issues at night... maybe your husband found the trick to soothe him. my daughter also seemed more happy when her dad held her when she had the colic it was every evening from like 8pm until 11, it went like this for about 2 weeks and than she was back to normal. some do have it for a few months though. it's tough if nothing seems to calm your baby.



massaging the tummy could help, or try different ways to hold the baby, tummy down with light pressure on the belly.

Katherine - posted on 02/26/2012

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Are you sure he's getting milk? Maybe that's why he screams.....Unfortunately they do change their routine. My daughters never flippin slept. My almost 3 year old STILL keeps me up at night! My other one didn't sleep through the night until 4.