6 weeks pregnant after miscarrige in feb

Tamara - posted on 10/14/2012

First let me say I am very sorry for your loss, miscarriages are never easy and you will always be a little fearful. Have faith that this baby is meant to be. Coming from experience I have been pregnant 6 times and have only had 2 live births. You tend to question being female and what have you done to not be able to complete the one specific thing women are created to do...the only way I could cope was to keep trying and as much as it hurt with each loss I could only resign myself to think that there was a divine reason these precious angels never made it into our world. I now have 2 beautiful children and would not change anything for the world...keep strong and believe in the positive...

Amber - posted on 09/14/2012

I goggled you all to see if anyone else feels like I did! :) I just found out im pregnant again after miscarrying in june of this year 2012 I am so worried I would only be 4 weeks..called my doc but cant get in till Mon for blood work.Im so afraid I will miscarriage before than and also being o neg. I need the shot if I do but levels go down so fast when you miscarry..I am having the same stomach pains I did when I miscarried last time...this will be a long weekend..I wish I could put my fears aside and be happy and not in tears cause I might miscarry again..

Carisa - posted on 06/24/2011

Natasha, I can completely relate. I got pregnant within a few months of miscarrying and I was terrified! What helped me is prayer. I also gave myself bedrest and asked for help from everyone! When I got stressed out or worried I prayed and talked to my friends/family. I joined a support group for miscarriages online and found a lot of help there.
The hardest part for me was getting pregnant before the due date of the child I lost. It took me quite awhile to deal with that, but I realized that something had gone wrong. It was not the right time for that to happen and I had to accept that I was not, in anyway, in control of that situation. Once you let go and ask God to give you peace, things get ALOT better. I will pray for you and keep everyone updated. =)

Bethany - posted on 06/18/2011

I've lost two- both around the 8-10 week point. I then went on to have a healthy baby girl in April of 2010, and have another one due in July.
My advice for you would be this: take it one day at a time, enjoy every moment of pregnancy, no matter what you fear. Otherwise, you'll be at the end, wishing that you had taken the time to enjoy the little things. That's what got me through the pregnancy after two back to back miscarriages. Honestly, pain of miscarriage does dwindle over time, but it's something you'll never forget.
Best of luck!
Bethany

Kira - posted on 06/18/2011

i've miscarried my first at 14 weeks pregnancy!!!i was in such a hard depression that only people who went through the same experience will get me...After exact 4 month i got pregnant with my daughter,i was sooooo scared the first 20 weeks,i was afraid it's gonna happen again,and doctors can't promise you anything,even why did it happen,all they were saying you a healthy young woman(was 24 at the time),and it's just the way mother nature selecting.....not really comforting,aren't?After those stuff you become more religious than ever!!!I was praying every night before sleep,and it was the only thing that was coming me down.After 20 week's ultrasound, when they told me it's a perfect healthy girl,i finely started to come down...I mean your fear is normal,you had a very great lost in your life,fear is part of dealing with that,but in most cases,after miscarriage,doctors cleaning your tubes and uterus so good,after this you will pump beautiful healthy babes:)))
Now i am mother of 2 beautiful girls:)But you never forget...Good luck to you,everything will be great!!!

Jane - posted on 06/18/2011

I had a miscarriage in late Sept and then conceived in Early November a few years back. My daughter was born with out any problems and the pregnancy was super easy. Try not to let your fears take over the pregnancy. Love every minute of it!!

Faye - posted on 06/17/2011

hi i understand ..
i was unlucky enough to have a miscarrige in jan 08 i was 9-10 weeks preg i then lost a little boy at 21 weeks .. but im now the very proud mum of xavier who is now 14 months old .. only advice i can give is to try not to worry yourself too much . i caused my son to be born prem through the stress and worry.. im sure you will go on to have your baby with no problems

Tomekia - posted on 06/16/2011

Natasha - I have never experienced this, so it is really hard for me to give advice. I can said that trying to stay as stress free (and getting sleep) is beneficial for your growing baby. I like what Julia said about speaking to your doctor about your fears. It will help, I think. Best of luck to you and your husband :)

Natasha - posted on 06/16/2011

am seeing the doctor tomorrow and midwife early next week. thankfully she is really fantastic and has agreed to do an early scan just to check everything is ok. i have my fiancee and 15mnt old but no family i really have contact with. my fiancee works 6 days a week so mostly i am alone through the day and this is when i get most up set
Best wishes to you

Julia - posted on 06/16/2011

I'm in almost the same boat, I miscarried last month and found out I am pregnant last week. I have a hard time walking into the same store where it started to happen! I am thankful I have my husband to talk to and a few close family to keep me as calm as I can be. Have you talked to your doctor about your fears? I have found mine to be very helpful in keeping me reassured.



Best wishes to you.