My husband just deployed 2 months ago, why does he want a divorce all of a sudden?

Chelsea - posted on 02/05/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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So my husband just deployed to Afghanistan about 2 months ago. This is his first deployment. We have a one year old son and I go to school full time. We have always had kind of a rocky relationship but both really love eachother (or so I thought). We Skype everyday and he says he is lonely because none of his friends are out there with him. All of sudden he is saying weird things and talking about he doesn't know what to do about us. He says he can't make me happy and he isn't what I want. He only gets more angry if I try to reassure him. I am kind of scared. He sounds so serious about not knowing what to do and even mentioned seperating. He isn't the cheating type but at this point im not sure what else to think. I am a very supportive wife, why am I getting this treatment all of a sudden? Any advice on what to do or advice on why he is acting like this would be a big help! Thank you

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Chelsea - posted on 02/05/2012

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yea, it is just all starting to bring me down. I really reassure him all the time and let him know how much I love him. He says he doesnt believe me, just feels like a never ending cycle.

Michelle - posted on 02/05/2012

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Being overseas and away from his family is very stressful I would just reassure him that you love him and encourage him to talk to a counselor I would suspect that he might be going through a bout of depression which is quite normal in the millitary.

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