Would you like to choose your childs mate?

Q:

Would you like to choose your childs mate?

  • lisa says:
    uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh YEAH!
  • Liz says:
    No
  • MaryBeth says:
    no.....I hope that all my Daughters find awesome men to care or them & love them
  • SHELLY says:
    NEVER, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IS IN SOMEONES HEART.YOU CAN ONLY PRAY THAT YOU HAVE RAISED THEM TO MAKE GOOD CHOICES AND THEN SUPPORT THE ONES THEY MAKE......OF COURSE YOU WOULD FIGHT TOOTH AND NAIL IF THEY WERE IN DANGER.
  • Marli says:
    Won't we all...
  • Katie says:
    no she can do that on her own
  • Stina says:
    Not really, that feels a little too similar to pimping for me... besides you can't choose a bond for someone else no matter how well you know them. They pretty much have to fall in love on their own...
  • Tamika says:
    No that is too much pressure if they don't live up to what I expected them to be to my child. I will leave it in the hands of the Lord.
  • Samantha says:
    nope as long as they are happy and well cared for - and well as long as Mommy get's a little input lol
  • Rebecca says:
    No, but I would hope they value my oppion on the matter.
  • Nykki says:
    No!
  • April says:
    no that is his choice and his decision
  • debbie says:
    Nah... What fun would that be?
  • Miranda says:
    I only want her to be happy, she's the only one who can make that decision about who she wants to spend the rest of her life with--not me.
  • Kayla says:
    Nope...That's their job.
  • Michelle says:
    yes, I would choose the one that loved them the most and would take good care of them
  • Jennifer says:
    no
  • Nicholle says:
    no.(but secretly) id like to weed through a list of candidates my children have chosen as their mates...come to a decent conclusion with them without fear or deception.
  • Kittie says:
    no
  • Laurinda says:
    no. i hope they all have holy orders
  • Echo says:
    no, im pretty sure it would be better for them to choose for themselves
  • Megan says:
    No i believe its up to him, i dont know how someone can love someone they are forced to be with makes no sense to me
  • Lizzie says:
    No - I know my husband would like to scare away EVERY seeker already, it is all about life and growing up. I just hope she has a wise head and does what is best for her.
  • Jenn says:
    nope staying out of it
  • Jacqueline says:
    no b/c i'm not the one that would have to live with the mate. as long as my child is happy and the mate treats my child well then i'm happy for them.
  • Karri says:
    no
  • Jade says:
    Nope, I want her to make her own decisions, but if he breaks her heart I'll probably most likely have to break his face and or legs. :)
  • Tricia says:
    To some degree
  • Erica says:
    No. That's for her to figure out, I'll always be there for her, but she needs to know her own heart.
  • Kristi says:
    No. God will provide the right mate for him
  • Jessica says:
    NO
  • Natalie says:
    i wish...
  • Amanda says:
    no but i would like some say
  • Syrina says:
    No
  • Erica says:
    No- I would like to have a opinion though...but I can't ultimately tell her she can't marry somebody...
  • Ciara says:
    no that wouldnt be there true love then
  • Jacquetta says:
    yes i would
  • Kiara says:
  • Shannon says:
  • Laurena says:
    No. It is their choice. As long as there happy.
  • Sarah says:
    i think every mother wants that. he has a little "girlfriend" already at almost 2. hehe. and i approve.
  • Kristin says:
  • Fiona says:
    no its up to them
  • Cynthia says:
    no
  • Judy says:
    NO, because then I probally wouldn't of had BEAUTIFUL grandbunnies
  • zoe says:
    no
  • Earline says:
    YES I WOULD BUT I KNOW IT WOULDN'T BE FAIR TO THEM . SO I'D RATHER JUST MEET THE ONES THAT THEY TAKE SERIOUSLY AND GET TO KNOW THEM AND IF THEN I DONT CARE FOR THEM GIVE MY OPINION
  • amy says:
    no, cant choose other peoples friends
  • Angie says:
    no way.
  • Adeliz says:
    NO
  • Jessica says:
    yes but no
  • Cherie says:
    NO
  • Shannon says:
    No
  • Krystal says:
    If i could i would
  • Amber says:
    no. I want my son to fall in love with whoever he wants (as long as its a legal and consenting relationship of course)
  • Jill says:
    no, maybe, depends on who they pick!!lol
  • Jazmin says:
    No but I would hope that we get along
  • Carol says:
    no, i want them to chose who they love
  • Joanna says:
    Boy dont we all lol... But unfortunately their hearts is what chooses for them.
  • Judith says:
    nope let them do that themsleves
  • Nicole says:
    no
  • Ashley says:
    Yes!!! lol... but i know tht daddy will have some long talks with the boys before they take her out on a date
  • Jessica says:
    yes
  • Lauren says:
    No
  • Beth says:
    yes
  • Sara says:
    no
  • tarah says:
    no, i hope they will allow god to choose their mate for them,he is the only one that will lead them to the right one
  • Rachel says:
    uh yes..lol who wouldn't :P but i would never try to control their decisions, i only want whats best for them but only they will know who they can love and live with for the rest of their lives.
  • Cyndel says:
    No, but I hope they trust my opinion and wisdom enough to ask for advice about the person they are seeing and truly consider my advice without thinking I'm just trying to ruin their life. I want my children to marry, I know that no one is perfect and I believe I can be as impartial as is safe when giving advice about a life long decision.
  • nicky says:
    nope
  • claire says:
    yes n no
  • Ashleigh says:
    no, as long as their white
  • Kirsty says:
    it will be up 2 her & her feelings
  • nicole says:
    no he can choose
  • nikita says:
    yes if i could
  • Laura says:
    No, she can choose. I just pray she finds someone who has a good head on their shoulders and who is good to her.
  • Casey says:
    no
  • christin says:
    yes i will mate them
  • Julie says:
    nope - that is their journey, not mine, and Iould never want to deprive them of that
  • kimberly says:
    yes
  • amy says:
    no God has done that and he knows excatly what He is doing
  • pamela says:
    no but id like to help them choose
  • vicki says:
    no
  • Molly says:
    Oh my lanta YES!!
  • Susy says:
    no
  • dionne says:
    yes in an ideal world
  • Jody says:
    uhmm no, that is a huge responsibility and I do not want that much it;s enough to be responsible for the moulding of them into an adult, once they are an adult it's up to them
  • Shae says:
    No. She'd never find ANYONE good enough :P
  • jeanene says:
    no
  • annalyn says:
    nope
  • megan says:
    no
  • Stephanie says:
    No its up to them
  • Bailey says:
    NO
  • Amy says:
    NO! It's his life and its his choice. I want him happy, not miserable.
  • rhonda says:
    that would be great but thats their life and who they chose i pray i like at least can deal with for a little bit
  • Mandy says:
    No
  • Kelli says:
    no
  • Rose says:
    well i'd like my opinion considered by my child but they have the ultimate choice
  • kelsey says:
    No.
  • ashley says:
    no
  • Shiloh says:
    nope its not my choice to make
  • Alison says:
    Nope it is there choice who is there mate not mine
  • Katherine says:
    Nope, you can't choose who you love. I will trust my daughter to make the best decision for what is right for her
  • Suleima says:
    no
  • Meilee says:
    yes
  • Vicky says:
    Would like to help & guide her, but not actually choose her mate.
  • Kate says:
    no
  • Christina says:
    No
  • Crysti says:
    no
  • kimberly says:
    no whoever they fall in love with I would try and accept, but it would be nice if they married someone that I liked too
  • kim says:
    no
  • Lauren says:
    no
  • casie says:
    of course who wouldnt, but its not mi choice.
  • Brenda says:
    no
  • Christina says:
    not really
  • Courtney says:
    i say no right now but i might change my mind once they are older and bring them home
  • Barbara says:
    No
  • Ann says:
    nope.
  • Kayla says:
    Id like to have an influence in them chooseing friends but i wouldnt like to full on choose them
  • christine says:
    No
  • Amy says:
    no I want my children to grow into their own and choose (Hopefully) an amazing man to share their life with...With my girls all having different personalities they wouldn't be happy with who i would pick Im sure.
  • Amy says:
    no. it is their choice.
  • Liz says:
    no
  • Valerie says:
    no
  • Shannon says:
    yes
  • Tara says:
    not even
  • Nichole says:
    No. That's their choice in life and I don't believe in intercepting in their lives.
  • Kimberly says:
    yes
  • Erika says:
    no
  • Jacqueline says:
    no..
  • Vivien says:
    No... I have confidence and trust in his judgement.
  • Sabrina says:
    No
  • Brandy says:
    yes but its up to her
  • Elizabeth says:
    no, it is not up to me.
  • Tiffany says:
    IDK. i would like to think that i would make a good choice for them, but in the end it has to be their decision.
  • Annie says:
    no..i feel they can make that choice on their own and they should.
  • gcobisa says:
    NO
  • Jessica says:
    no i trust my boys to choose a great mate
  • Kelly says:
    maybe
  • Cyrine says:
    no
  • Leonore says:
    Yes
  • Kathryn says:
    nope
  • julie says:
    no
  • Joanna says:
    yes
  • Melinda says:
    No, but give them my opinion of them.
  • Chanjal says:
    choose wouldn't be the word. i would like to suggest but i believe she must chose her mate.
  • Ashley says:
    yes
  • Jessie says:
    I can only give advice and hope she learns how to pick out a partner as close to her father as possible. :)
  • Jessica says:
    No. I hope to be able to instead guide them to making the right choices themselves
  • Gwen says:
    No, I just hope that they each choose someone who will treat them like they are everything and love them unconditionally.
  • Genie says:
    No
  • Theresa says:
    As in husband/wife? No that is their choice.