Doesn't want to connect with outsiders!!!

Shalini - posted on 08/11/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My daughter doesn't try to connect with outsiders..school , neighbor...She goes to school to make me happy :0) comes back and asks " r u happy mom'

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Jerosha - posted on 12/18/2010

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You need to reply "I am happy when you are happy are you happy" use this to start the conversation with your daughter be prepared for her to say "no" and then ask her why she isnt is there someone who is nasty at school or does she just not know how to interact with others (dont suggest a reason ask for it ... if you suggest then she will snatch on it). Talk to her teachers first and find out what is happening there, ie has she made friends and if so ask her about them and try and encougage playdates.

What does she do when you take her to the park? Will she just sit there and play by herself or will she interact with others?

You need to show her how to interact with the others her own age so that she can, when you take her to school talk to the other children in her class help her to make friends (if she hasnt managed to do so by herself)