Ok thanks ladies, it's good to know I'm not the only one trying to figure this out :-), and I'm not too far of the mark to what you're all doing. Matteo doesn't like the bottled food at all, so I'm having to make everything myself. I've also started the ice cube thing, where I've made chicken and brocolli and frozen it, which I add to a starch at lunch time, like sweet potato. I just need to add fruit to his rice cereal in the mornings.
Anyway, thanks again xxx