Jennifer - posted on 07/16/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
My three year old daughter had an attitude to boot, she is very demanding and RUDE!! I am almost at my limit, I feel like im going to brake soon, I dont know how to change this... I have tried everything i can think of, I have recently called a place to talk to someone about the way she acts and talks..
When someone give her a gift she says" I DONT LIKE IT" Refuses to say thank you....and says "I DONT WANT IT"
I can tell that it upset people so much and it makes me upset that my daughter acts this way... She never says please and thank you on her own, its a fight everytime becuase we dont give her something less she says please or thank you
When she gets a toy or something from someone and says that she doesnt like it, she takes it and goes in her room and tries to brake it...
Also, she is in this thing now where when she gets mad or gets put in her room for doing something she clearly knows she isnt suppose to be doing, she slams her bedroom door, goes in her room and screams and yells she hates us, she doesnt like us...
She punishes herself, if we tell her that she cant have a treat because she has to have dinner or lunch first, she will say "WELL IM NOT EATING THEN.." or "I DONT WANT ANYTHING ANYWAYS"
Im so confused and so stressed about these events that are happening
PLEASE HELP..... I need some advice or some pointers how to approach and deal with this attitude of hers... Am I doing something or everything wrong?