how did you meet your babys father ? an are use still together ?

Waiaha - posted on 03/30/2010 ( 43 moms have responded )

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im 19 years old, i meet my partner a few years aqo at a friends party, so qlad i went kos i wasnt planinq on qoin. we talkd an all, few days later he askd me out, few months later fell preqnant too him, we wer both excited an full of joy, we had our ups an downs but heyy we all doo, when our baby came alonq everythinq just fell bacc into place. still with him an love every moment :)

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Lesley - posted on 01/21/2013

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My husband was a blind date my twin sister set up. I bad had a fewnbad relationships and she said she was picking my next one. He was a man I never would have considered from friend group we occasionally hung out with. The date went awesome. We dated for 3 months and he toldo me he loved me. Got engaged at 9 months. Married 3 months later.( I don't believe in long engagements, better chance. To back out, or show they are not invested in relationship, just asked so you wouldn't leave ). We got pregnant on our honeymoon. And had baby girl after a few years of trying. Still in love.
I totally suggest getting married sooner rather then later. If he is your forever you just know. Long relationships and engagements are just opportunity to not commit...sign of disrespect. That is what I've seen Alot.all my gfs who had, long relationships and engagements divorced shortly after.

ARNALYN - posted on 04/10/2011

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My first child is turning 5 on Aug2011. My Uncle's friend introduced him to us. We fell inlove. I got pregnant after our 5th year anniversary. And now, our son is turning 5. But we're not together anymore. I now have a new husband, the father of my youngest that I met at a bar, a friend introduced us to each together. Got pregnant after 3years. On April 28 2011, we'll celebrate our 4th year anniversary! And glad that we have a 4month old brainy boy. =)

Kelly - posted on 05/19/2010

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i met my hubby in high school 10 years ago and we have one son. we are very happily married.

Dee - posted on 05/12/2010

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I met my hubby at a Bond Fire 6 years ago, became good friends and then started dating. We have two beautiful boys and I love all 3 of them until then end :)

Ashley - posted on 05/12/2010

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ME AND MY FIANCE MET ON MYSPACE. HE MESSAGED ME AND WE TALKED A FEW WEEKS BEFORE WE MET. WE HUNG OUT A FEW TIMES THEN KINDA DRIFTED APART. 8 MONTHS LATER ON MY 20TH BIRTHDAY WE HUNG OUT AGAIN AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER EVERYDAY SINCE. IT WILL BE 3 YEARS AUGUST 17TH. WE HAVE A 9 MONTH OLD SON TOGETHER.

SarahJane - posted on 05/11/2010

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I met my partner on eHarmony. I joined as a joke because I was sick of Niel Warren (CEO of eHarmony) saying he could find a partner for anyone. So I wanted to prove him wrong. However, I was proven wrong. It wasn't instanteous, but I was matched with the love of my life. I put that I could be matching with anyone in the world, and they matched me with someone who lived five miles away from the same university we attended. He was in undergrad, and I was in grad school. We fell in love, moved in, became engaged, married, moved, and bought a house in a little over a year. Somewhere in there we both graduated.... we tried for over a year and a half to get pregnant.

Melissa - posted on 05/11/2010

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My husband was a one-off customer of where I was working at the time. He came in, we chatted (I was smitten) and then he left to go around the back into our warehouse to pick some goods up and while he was doing that I said out loud to nobody in paticular that I fancied him oh well wish I had his number and a co-worked jumped out of his chair with pen and paper ran out of the office and chased him down (to my embaressment) and came back with his number - and thats how it all started. I txtd him and he asked me out to dinner and we had the most romantic night ever - I think we fell in love that night. Within 3 months of living together he proposed and then a week later found out we were expecting - 5 months later we were married and haved lived happily ever after!

Priscilla - posted on 05/11/2010

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i met my daughters father when i was 15 yrs old he was 19. I was dating a mutual friend of ours. Years and years later we started tlkin on msyapce and then we hungout...we were together everyday after...I got pregnant three mos into our reltionship. We broke up when I was 4 mos pregnant because he did not have the time in his life for me or a fmaily. (he played softball for 7 teams and told me softball was his lifee) He came around alittle throughout my pregnancy, but left 4 days after our daughter was born. I got in touch with him about 3 mos later and he started coming around again. He would come see our daughter once a week for about 4months then he started slowly not coming around as often. Once every 8-9wks...now its been over a month and there has been no phone calls or visits. I havent ried to contact him...if he dont have time for us we dont have time for him. Since then i have met someone else...who treats my daughter better than her own father ever did. He loves us and we love him and we are veryyy veryy happy!!

Suzannah - posted on 05/10/2010

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We met through jr high school and started dating at age 14. We married in 2001 at age 20. In Sept we will celebrate our 9 yr anniversary. We have been through 4 miscarriages and on our 5th try were blessed with our miracle baby Emma.

Mellanie - posted on 05/10/2010

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I met my husband at a friends party as well about 11 years ago. I came pregnant with our first child when I was 17 and had him when I was 18. We just had our second baby in August. Every day I find more and more things to love him for.

Charlene - posted on 05/10/2010

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i moved to a new pub with my job and he was a regular in the pub, became friends and just carried on there, fell pregnant 3 months after getting together and 4 1/2 yrs later and 3 babies later we still going strong! x

Samantha - posted on 05/09/2010

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My husband was room mates with my friends husband over in japan and she gave him my number so we started talking everyday. when he came back to the states i flew to minnesota to meet him face to face (sep 08) and that was it, we where in love so we drove to his new duty station in cali and i never went back to florida. we planned on getting married dec 08 and i found out i was pregnant in nov 08. we have been married over a year now and loving every min. with our daughter. He is deployed now so it sucks.

User - posted on 05/09/2010

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i met my son's father 3 years ago and it felt like love at first sight, but lately its been rough getting along, and asking him to respect me for me is like asking him to take over the world.

Ashley - posted on 05/09/2010

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hey me and husband met at dairy queen where we both worked later on in life we had our son wesley!!! and yes we are still together

Marti - posted on 05/09/2010

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Met my partner after being single 4 some time. We were friends at first, then started seeing each other on & off. Eventually after dating 4 for 1 1/2 year, we moved in 2getha. Under the impression that i could not fall pregnat, we were both ok with that. Then when the 3rd doctr told me i had an overactive thyriod & problems with my ovaries, referring me to a specialist, i was already 5 mnths pregnant!!!!!!! So almost 5 years down the line, almost 9 mnth old baby boy, we are happier than ever!!!

Christina - posted on 04/20/2010

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I met my hubby at church. We got engaged, set the date, and a month later, I found out I was pregnant. So I walked down the isle 5 months preggo, We are still together, and very much in love. I have the family I always wanted, only 10X better. Our 1 year anniversary is april 25, 2010, so like 5 days away.

Lindsay - posted on 04/19/2010

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Crazy story... I was dating his brother than was deployed, my fiance moved back from new york. I hung out with him along with his family while his brother was deployed. I stayed faithful to his brother, he decided to dump me on Christmas Day. Me and my Fiance still hung out sometimes, we became really good friends,eventually feelings started to grow. And now over 2 years and an 8 month old later and will be married on May 1st, 12 days away!

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I met my husband junior year of high school. He sat behind me in algebra 2 class. We have been together 12 years, married for 6 in October. :)

Bonnie - posted on 04/19/2010

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Hi, we met online and had intended not to have a serious relationship as we had both just come out of a relationship..............
About 4 months later we moved in together, 2 years later we got married and then another 2 years later we had our daughter. We've been together nearly 5 years

Heather - posted on 04/18/2010

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Met my hubby at church in 2005. Played in our praise and worship band together and got to know each other that way, and then started dating after a few months. We got engaged in 2006, married in June of 2007, had our beautiful baby girl in August of 2009. We are definitely still together, happier and more in love than ever, and can't wait to expand our family more in the future! =)

Tori - posted on 04/18/2010

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Met our junior year of high school. Had mutual friends and spent quite a bit of time together then suddenly our senior year realized we both liked each other more than just friends. Started dating beginning of our senior year then I got pregnant on birth control that november. We have been together for 2 and a half years and I love him more than anything. We are getting married in August right before our daughters birthday :)

Becky - posted on 04/14/2010

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I was a very successfully single and loving it single mom back in 2007. I was out and about one night to go sing karaoke and met up with some friends. A friend of mine introduced me to her out of town friend. My gal pal was playing social butterfly that night and him and I sat together looking through song books. I kept him company. We exchanged emails and sort of kept in touch for a few months. ^ months after meeting him we kept corresponding through Facebook and emails. He asked me out a few times but we never did get together for the first part. He went away on holidays for 2 weeks and when he was away he realized that he missed me. When he came back he wanted me for a girlfriend but ended up chasing after me for a while. Xmas time was coming up and he invited me out to one of his xmas parties at work. I debated it for a few weeks and finally said Ok. I was extremely nervous driving out to his town and checking into a hotel (He lived in residence). The party was nice and the day after we went out for breakfast and we've been together ever since. It scared the living daylights out of me being in another relationship again....I'm glad I gave him the chance and time. A year later we conceived our little Missy, he moved in and took care of me cause I was extremely ill during the pregnancy......

Maryjean - posted on 04/12/2010

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Funny story.We met on facebook, I bought his picture on owned. We talked for a while on msn, texting and phoneing each other. I came to Ont for vacation to meet him 3 months later. We knew before we met it was ment to be. I moved to ont a month later. Three months later we got pregnant. We now have a 8 month old girl and we are getting married in July of this year.

Alexandra - posted on 04/12/2010

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I met my husband in my previous office. I was in a job interview in this company that my husband worked in. When i was waiting for my turn to get interview, he want out to go to the toilet and smile at me. I was ignoring him at first. But then i got the job in that company and started to work there. First few months nothing special that i found in him, but then he started to show his good quality as a gentlemen. But couple months later he resigned from that company. But that makes us getting close together. And we started to date. After few months of dating i started to wonder where this relationship is taking us...So i asked him. He said that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship and i didn't mind at all, that means we can also see and date other people. He got scared. So he asked me to be his girlfriend. We were lover for almost 3 years before we decided to get married. We got married in 2008 and have a baby boy who was born in August 2009.

Tracy - posted on 04/07/2010

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met 10 years ago, married for almost 8 now. I was 32 when we got married. we decided we were going to wait a few years for kids until we were established. I was finishing up my degree and we wanted to build a house. So we did that and now we have a 3 year old daughter and a 7 month old son - we had discussed since I came from a broken home that once we decided to have kids this marriage was forever, because I swore I would never put my children through what I went through as a child.

Chasity - posted on 04/07/2010

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im am 19 yrs also i meet my husband 2.5 yrs ago his mother loved me so she hooked us up and so did his sister but we also have had our ups and downs but we are together and plan on being together for a long time for ourselves and for our family we have made together.

Chelsea Cleo - posted on 04/05/2010

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I am 19 also. Met my partner a few years ago threw a friend. I feel pregnant with him after 3 months of being together. We had ups and downs also. Its all falling back into place now and we are happier than we ever have been :)

Danielle - posted on 04/05/2010

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I met my husband on January 1st 2002! It was a New Years party. We were married in Kauai in July 2007, and we had a baby boy August 2009. He is the sweetest man I have ever met.

Michelle - posted on 04/05/2010

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i meet my husband thru friends and we have been together for almost 8years and we been married going on 6 years this coming july and we have 2 lil boys together...1 is going on 6 and the other one is gonna be 8months old in a couple of days

Karen - posted on 04/02/2010

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met online and lived together straight away. after 3 months i was pregnant and we now have a beautiful 7 month old girl and engaged to get married next year

Allie - posted on 04/01/2010

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i meet my husband at our job. we were friends for a year and then we got together. we got pregnant right away. a few months after we had her we got pregnant again. a few months later we got married. a year later after we had our son we got pregnant with our last little girl. i had a daughter before my husband but he took her on like his own. she is going to take his name by her choice. we are a happy couple as much as we were from day one. of course we have our tiffs but it is more arguements about missing time with eachother then anything else.

Stephanie - posted on 04/01/2010

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I met my husband through a co-worker of mine which happened to be his roommate. Went to a party at his house and thought he was so rude. Started hanging out which turned into dating got pregnant 5 months after I met him with our first child.We have been together for 6 yrs and married for 2. Now with 2 beautiful girls. We've had our ups and downs but I wouldn't trade him for anything he is my best friend and the love of my life.

Heather - posted on 04/01/2010

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I met my hubby in college 6 years ago at a party that one of his friends invited me to. I fell for him the second he walked through the door. The party got busted before I really got to meet him so we moved to another party that just so happened to be at his apartment. We started talking that night and haven't been apart since. We got engaged 2 years after meeting, got married the following year, got pregnant about a year and a half after that, and are going to be celebrating our 3 year anniversay of being married next month (been together for 6). He's my soul mate :)

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Iv been with my hubby for 12 years. We met at school and became friends. We got married 5yrs ago and have 3 children now. Im still trying to convince him that a fourth would be nice :) x

*Lisa* - posted on 04/01/2010

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I met my husband when I was 4. Our parents are friends. Then both of our families moved to opposite ends of the country only to find each other again in the same town when we were 14. We started dating at 16 and got married at 21 (he was 23). :)

Stephanie - posted on 03/31/2010

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We met while I was a manager at Petsmart and he got a job in my department...didn't last long since we both knew right away that we wanted to be together. It's been almost 5 years now, engaged for 2, and we have our 8 month old daughter along with his 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship...and he gets to tell everyone that he "knocked up" his boss lol.

Fiona - posted on 03/31/2010

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We met on facebook, we were living interstate at the time, on the second time i went to visit him was when i fell pregnant. He moved down to me when was 5 months pregnant. We got engaged end of december last year. We are so happy and love each other very much, things were very tough at the time found out was pregnant.

So been engaged 3 months
Be together 17 months and have a 7 month old baby :)

Emily - posted on 03/30/2010

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We met in high school through mutual friends. Yes we are still together. Married for 7 years.

Priscilla - posted on 03/30/2010

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i meet my hubby on myspace we talked back and fourth thru email and texting for a month then we meet at the post office, we dated 4 and half months got married got prego 5 months later we will be married 2 years may 30 and are son will be a year old aug 4 and i still love my hubby

Kristine - posted on 03/30/2010

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met my hubby at church about 10 years ago. we were best friends for about 5 year before we started dating. we only dated for 3 months before we got engaged and we've been married going on 4 years now =]

Jessica - posted on 03/30/2010

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I met my hubby 14 years ago on-line. We have been together ever since and married for almost 11 years. We have 2 kids, 6 year old boy, and 7 month old daughter.

Still in love with him!

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