does anyone actually come in this circle??

Beth - posted on 01/15/2011

hi everyone,
i am thankful for this community, even though there doesnt seem to be much going on here, i feel it is a place i can come, especially now. i found out today that i have had a false pregnancy with a missed abortion... has anyone else had their loss clasified as this? the baby is still inside me, but it apparently never had a heartbeat... i would be 9 weeks this week. i have 2 amazing kids, a 21 month old girl, and an 8 month old boy, and i am so thankful for them, our newest addition would have been due in august 2011, on my dads birthday and 2 weeks after one sister in law and 4 days after the other sister in law - my husband family is so close we were all planning on going to exercise together and have get togethers, now i cant even imagine how it is going to be when i see them, and when their bundles of jy come... i have to organise a d and c - i still cant believe it has 'gone' i have had no pain, no bleeding, no indication

Ashleigh - posted on 11/09/2010

hi my name is ash, i have a gorgeous little girl named tabitha and she is 9 months old and i have had 8 little angels the 1st one was at 7 weeks 2nd at 9 weeks 3rd at 10 weeks 4th at 3 weeks 5th at 8 weeks 6th at 11 weeks 7th at 4 weeks and the last one was at 12 weeks

Lauren - posted on 04/17/2010

Hi Tash, I've been having trouble posting for the last few months, but I keep trying. It's still a small group so it will seem like nobody uses it, but if we can help one person get through one of the most difficult times in their lives I think it's worth it. The reason I started this group was because when I had my miscarriage in Oct 2008 I went to the other groups on Circle of Moms and found them really helpful, though being American I felt isolated from them.

My sister had a baby a month after my miscarriage and when I walked into the maternity wing of the hospital I just broke down and couldn't go in. I went and sat in the garden for a while and my sister came out to me and eventually I went in to meet my nephew. I still feel bad that I put a dampener on her special time.

Natasha - posted on 03/29/2010

Hi my name is Natasha too :) i am 23 and have been married for almost 2 years. I have had 3 miscarriages. the first at 7 weeks the second at 5 weeks and this last one just last week when i was 6 weeks along. :( But i also have a beautiful son who turns 1 in two weeks! :)

Laura - posted on 03/15/2010

hi tash =) i do sometimes when i have time and remember that i have circle of mums. im laura ive been with my partner for 3 years in august and we just had our first baby chloe on the 19th of february , i have an angel baby to, i lost my first baby in november 2008 i was 11 weeks pregnant. im sorry for your loss, the little girl in your photo is gorgeous =)

Natasha - posted on 02/16/2010

i have good and bad days...1 of my friends is pregnant and was due 5 days after me so her growing bump is a constant reminder of what i have lost but at the same time i am completly happy for her. Just makes me sad even though i know we are gonna try for another and i wonder when this feeling is gonna pass coz people just think i should get over it straight away coz(in there words) it wasn't even a real baby yet but to me i had already made lots of plans, hopes and dreams for our new baby :-( how are you coping with it all bonnie?

Bonnie - posted on 02/15/2010

yeah i was due in august ... how are you going ?

Natasha - posted on 02/14/2010

hi bonnie...you were due in august as well weren't you?

Bonnie - posted on 02/08/2010

i have a 4 yr beutiful lil girl that just strted kindy ... we were trying for about 6 months BFP then its staled at 6 weeks :( i noticed not many people use it but im still looking in every now and then :)