Nicole - posted on 11/19/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )
hi my boy is nine has severe adhd odd pdd and asd possibly aspergers, he is extremely violent and aggressive and angry at least five times a day i am a b!@#$ a mother fer i get things thrown at me i am yelled at its like he has no feelings of remorse shame or guilt at treating me horrible he reminds me od the desription of a serial killer he has what i call dead eyes when i ask him why he does it he tells me i dont know and he cant remember what he has done.i have done charts rewards spanking yelling lists books therapists meds chores everything you can think of every day i am on the computer finding something new. we go to weekly therapy i adjust my life i have quit my job because my home has become so stressfull. my son was on all the meds they could prescribe for a kid and i found that his behavior was equally yucky without them so i took him off there is no difference in behavior. every night i am crying for my lost life. please tell me what behaviors i am able to help and which ones i need to accept due to his needs i dont know. I treat him like a normal child with normal expectations is that wrong..?