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Please help me!!!!

Jennifer - posted on 12/05/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Please tell me I am not crazy!!!! I need someone to tell me if it is okay for your MOTHER to take away your child from you when she falls out of bed and hits her head???

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Jennifer - posted on 01/31/2012

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I am stuck until then.. or i win the lottery. :P

Jennifer - posted on 01/31/2012

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Teresa- no she never took me to court to try to take her away, she just takes complete control over her as if she is hers and I can not and I an NOT ALLOWED to take care of her when and how i want. She acts like I am such a child and a cripple b/c i was diagnosed a few years ago with asperger's syndrome before she was even born. I am NOT allowed to say she is my child I will parent her how I want. She will just tell me that i dont take care of her and that is B/C i can't. Every time I try to be her parent, she tells me I am doing everything wrong, according to her and what she has read from doctors and psychologists. So now that means b/c she knows things that i dont and I havent even been given a chance to raise her and teach her the things i want her to learn, b/c if even i were to read something she would just disagree with me, so that means i can't and I am not allowed to parent her my way. My mother spoils her and lets her stay up extremely late and she doesn't have to go to bed until she wants to.. which usually not till after 10 pm. She still drinks formula every night and day time and she is 3 years old!!!

She thinks that b/c she doesnt eat all different kinds of food that she needs to drink it b/c of the nutrients but i would just rather her be given new things to eat and try out... but my mother wont let me pick out anything new. She eats practically the same foods she has been eating since she was 2. She hardly ever eats anything new unless she wants to try something that i am eating. Basically i feel like i am not her parent I am like her sister, competing for her attention or somehting, b/c if something happens and she wont listen to me, she almost immediately runs away from me and to someone else... and there is NOTHING ELSE Ican do, but watch them take care of her their way.. it seriously sickens me.. but I have no where else to go since i don thave a job at the moment OR a car..So..

Teresa - posted on 12/16/2011

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Did your mother take you to court over this? Or just take your kid?

Jennifer - posted on 12/05/2011

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I am not allowed to be with my own child and take care of her MY WAY!!! It is such a disgrace

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