Beloved Birthmoms -

Being a birthmom is a life changing event. Here are some hearts ripped open for life, some hearts are filled with relief, some hearts are left always wondering when one sees other "families" "out there" what "could have been." Yes, we stood up in a court room and transferred "rights" to the adoptive mom and dad. Sometimes, we are forgotten and misunderstood. The child indeed has 2 moms from that point on. This is a place where you can share your pain and struggles and healing and love. I placed a daughter in 1988. I have never been the same.