Jaime - posted on 04/23/2009 ( 7 moms have responded )
I think all this nonsense between us has gone on long enough. I have said it many times I am finished fighting with you, but for some reason it never stops on both sides. The bitterness between us is starting to affect any relationship we could have with Tanner up here. Just want to point out I was here for the conversation you had with Matt last night, and although tempers were high I do know from what you had to say he was not unreasonably rude. I am not asking us to be the best of friends, or even friends for that matter. But once upon a time we were able to hold a civil conversation. You don't want me to step foot on your property, I respect that. But using your hatred towards me be the main reason for Tanner not being allowed to have visitation with us this coming weekend is ridiculous. Before you throw Tanner having basketball in my face, Matt had already decided to have Tanner home in time for basketball (regardless of what he said when he was angry) He was trying to make a point to you that for some reason you couldn't see. I know you are a very good mother to Tanner, I know you do anything and everything you can for him I just don't understand why you wouldn't be willing to help us out enforcing visitations?? Some of the stuff Tanner came out with during the phone call was alittle outragous, but he is entitled to his opinion just the same as we all are. Sorry got alittle of topic from my original plan.
After everything that has been said these last few weeks I am unsure how we have gotten to this point (must be another blond moment..LOL) If you could make a list of everything I do that seems to have put this huge wedge in this silly situation, that might beable to help out a little. Kinda like counselling, we are supposed to be the adults in this situation, not acting like highschool kids. We both have the same goal in mind, Tanner happiness. Things need to be worked on, otherwise it will probally end up alot worse than it is right now (if it could possibly get worse??)
Anyways thanks in advance for taking time out of your day!