Brenda - posted on 04/23/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
my stepson has lived with his dad and I for 12 yrs! We live in Ohio his bio mom lives in Arizona. she has always gone against any rule we set down for him. I made a promise to him I would never make him stop seeing her because I know thats his mom and he loves her..When we lived in Arizona things were bad whenever our son Evan is his name, whenever he would get in trouble at school he would call his mom and we would let him still go to her house even when he was grounded. But she would let him run the streets and give him stolen property, his grades were terrible and he was in trouble all the time. We moved to Ohio and changed everything! Our son has rules now and he follows them he has honor roll grades and plays on the football team we are very proud of him. BUT! Evan needs supervison, hes a good kid but he is a teenager so when he is online or on the internet he needs to be watched.I need advice from other moms on this because I want to be fair to my son his bio mom says he doesnt need to be watched she calls me eyespy and sent him a ipod touch so he can get online anytime he wants. Am I wrong to be angry! I told him he cant take it to school with him hes in 8th grade and they are testing all week but I found out he took it to school today anyways. please give advice.