I love "Meltdown" by Justin Roberts. When my oldest son was little and in the midst of numerous tantrums it made me feel better as I too had several "break downs" myself. I love the imagery this song creates! Two brothers, one framing the other for coloring their mom's favorite chair. Classic!
http://www.amazon.com/Meltdown/dp/B0017HYH4K/ref=tmm_msc_title_0