I have 2 boys ages 5 and 7 years old born on the same day.....so we only have to do one birthday party. (YAY) We feel that kids parties get so big and commercial and we are a very low key family and tend to keep it simple. Since my boys share a birthday we talk about what we want to do for their birthday, what theme etc... they also get to pick out their own cakes which is so much fun! A few years ago my children (and still are) were very into art so we chose to have a Messy Art Party. We had stations set up with painting, play dough, art crafts, cupcake decorating and as a favor they made their own tie dye shirt. It was a HUGE hit for the kids and parents. http://www.oboyorganic.com/blog/old-school-birthday-parties-where-did-they-go-