Holly Janelle - posted on 02/24/2012 ( 14 moms have responded )
Please I need advise my 11 mo DD has nursed to sleep(for naps everything she is very attached) and co slept with my DH and I since she has gotten home from the hospital 11 months ago. I'm ready to have my bed back and so is my DH. I tried the side car thing but it just hasn't been working out for us. I want to figure out a way to get my DD to sleep in her own crib and try to make it as smooth of a transition as possible.
I'm scared about how hard it's going to be on her. I don't want it to hurt her mental health and and cause her to feel like she can't count on me or feel confident in herself and surroundings. I dunno I feel like a mess.
With DH he wants OUR space back where we can have our alone time and cuddle time (if you know what I mean) without her being in OUR area or worrying about waking her up. He's not even interested in being intimate at all it's bothering him so bad an it's driving me crazy.
Please help me. Any helpful suggestions/advise ANYTHING would be completely welcomed! Thank you soo much