UNKNOWN - posted on 08/18/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
I am a stay at home Mom of 1 and pregnant with my second. My husband sometimes makes me feel like because I do not have a steady job like he does that I am not contributing to the family. He often makes me feel like I am lazy and a bad mother. I don't think he means to make me feel this way. I know he loves me more than anything. Maybe its my hormones. I have his supper cooked everynight when he gets home. I have all his clothes cleaned and put away. I even lay out his clothes for the next day. Our house is spotless and I take care of our 5 year old. He thinks that I sleep to much. I am 5 1/2 months pregnant. I am up and down 100 times a night to go pee, my hips hurt and I don't get a good nights sleep. So there for I sleep when I can. He tells me this morning that I act like a teenager sleeping all the time. He is mad at me because our son is on the same sleep schedule I am. He goes to bed about 10 ish everynight. He is up about 4:30 everymorning and goes back to sleep around 7 and sleeps till about 9 or 10. My husband says this is not healthy. I know he is right. I know our son should be on a regular sleep schedule so when he starts school next month he will be alert and ready in the mornings. Does this make me a lazy and bad mother? Advice please....I feel like one!