Bridget - posted on 02/18/2010 ( 34 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been civilly married for 5 years. We are unalbe to get married in the Catholioc church because he is divorced and have not been able to work on getting that resolved. I know that being Catholic and married outside the church I cannot be absolved from my sins (not through the church anyway-very frustrating). So technically it would be wrong for me to go up to communion. I have a 10 yo son that has had his first communion and would feel bad him going up by himself or not at all (when I can get him to go to church with me). I also have a 3 year old son and not sure if this would confuse him. Anyway, I am not sure what I should do. It feels wrong when I do go to communion yet it feels wrong when I don't. Help Please!!!