Child Support and child custody

I left my ex and he refused to make a parenting plan or sign any custody agreements. We have dealt with the child support by him telling me that he will pay what he can afford. He makes a hundred thousand a year and said that if I won't take the money he feels he can pay (he has a lifestyle to maintain you know) then I can make this ugly and we can go to court and let a judge decide. He has told me if I go that route he quit his job as he now feels that he has nothing to lose (we sold our family home because of his gambling debt and I could't get away from him fast enough. He has even went as far as telling me he can't afford his own place because he has to pay child support (when if fact he is a compulsive gambler and blows every cent he makes which one of the main thing that ended our relationship.). The other problem I am having is that my ex as just applied for a green card with the US and plans on doing the same for our minor child. My ex's dad lives in the states and actually told my ex "to take our minor child and just move. Sigh... I am not even comfortable with my ex taking our child out of the country because of his refusal to sign a custody agreement. It seems to be never ending. Any help would be appreciate.

1

Custody issue

My so is 12 his dad has never been in his life until starting 5 months ago child support has been in place since my son was 3 now he taking me to court for custody be cause he...

1

child support and visitation

I have been paying child support to my ex-husband for years. He has moved to another state with our kids and he won't let me see or talk to them. In the last few years I have...

1

child support and visitation

I have been paying child support to my ex-husband for years. He has moved to another state with our kids and he won't let me see or talk to them. In the last few years I have...

0

Custody issue

My so is 12 his dad has never been in his life until starting 5 months ago child support has been in place since my son was 3 now he taking me to court for custody be cause he...

1

custody in case of my death

My daughter is 14 now. Her bio is not on her BC and met her when she was 9. His choice not to meet her before. He lives out of town and he has only made an effort to see her...

0

custody in case of my death

My daughter is 14 now. Her bio is not on her BC and met her when she was 9. His choice not to meet her before. He lives out of town and he has only made an effort to see her...

0

How does back support work?

Kids dad makes $15 hourly and has been ordered to pay $658 plus $130 for health insurance. He's also behind $2000. On a weekly average how much will be deducted? They said it...

0

How does back support work?

Kids dad makes $15 hourly and has been ordered to pay $658 plus $130 for health insurance. He's also behind $2000. On a weekly average how much will be deducted? They said it...

0

Child Support Question??

Well Im a struggling single working mom. And thankfully will be receiving support soon. He has been ordered to pay $788 monthly that's included $130 in health benefits for our...

0

Child Support Question??

Well Im a struggling single working mom. And thankfully will be receiving support soon. He has been ordered to pay $788 monthly that's included $130 in health benefits for our...