Do you tell your 7 year old that daddy beat up his girlfriend and is in jail?

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Helen - posted on 09/20/2013

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Not sure I understand but if you beat the daddy up and went to jail sounds like you need to do a anger programme it unhealthy to present any violence to your children
to me an adult has had there world weather it be love sad bitter angry addictions
But a child who is brand new should not have to survive the adults ugly choices
thats not fair If an incodent happens and your both working on changes and the child being put first in saftey rules then the child can have healthy relationships.

Helen - posted on 09/20/2013

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If he use to beat you up has your son ever wittnessed or has he ever seen daddy hit any one. Its important you show your son violence is not ok physical also goes with mental abuse he isnt going to change in short term and maybe never.

If you wish for your son to see his dad maybe supervised or you can meet him at the park make sure you dont get into any arguements that he spends quality time with his son only or if neither then move on with your lives your son is vulnerable to repeating violence if he is listening to bad stuff about his daddy or sees violence.

there are many groups you can engage in for you and your son womens refuge would know of them in your area

Amy Somethingorother - posted on 09/05/2012

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Nope,I beat up the "daddy" and get put in jail



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Michelle - posted on 08/10/2012

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A 7 year old doesn't need to know the details. It would be best to say that Daddy did something naughty and is in jail or gone away for a while, if you need to go that far. They aren't going to understand beating up someone.

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