Mindy - posted on 05/28/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi girls my name is mindy I'm 21 and I'm going threw divorce I have 2 kids ages 2 and 6 months. I hate this situation and didn't want to go threw it. My husband doesn't love me this last time I talked to him he said he wants a friendship and to see my kids I'm destroyed and I feel so hurt he is so selfish I told him how this would affect our kids but he never cared I recently found out that he had a fb account for almost 1 yr I had no idea about it when I kinda suspected something I asked him he said I love you baby I would never do that I don't have time for that trash well he lied. His put in his account that his single and that his a male. It broke my heart but I took action and file for divorced hoping it would be a wake up call. To my surprise he file his response. I'm so hurt and it's hard when my 2 years old asked me" mom why is daddy not home." My heart breaks in two I don't know what to say. Another thing I should mention is that we did argue a lot but it was nothing that could not being fixed. I'm needing advice I feel so hurt but at the same time I can't concentrate on my feelings because my 2 beautiful babies need me. He does see my kids all weekend. Since Friday to Sunday night. Im needing help with how to go threw this divorced process being so hurt and scared on being a single mom.