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This past Saturday my daughter (5yo) spent the night over at her father's (remarried) and came back on Sunday like normal. But on Monday, she informed me that her bedroom has no door, just a curtain. Her cousins aged 12, 14, and 16 all boys, and parents, had spent the night as well, which wouldn't have been so bad except for the next part she told me. Her father allowed her to sleep on the living room floor with the cousins, no adults were sleeping in the room with them as the parents were in the guest room, and her father and wife were in their room. She said that no one had touched her and she was open about talking about it, so I don't think anything happened. Her father saw nothing wrong with this and accused me of thinking like ‘a sl*t in the gutter’ for suggesting that the boys could have done anything, told me that they were good church-going people and I was out of line. Do I have reason to be worried or am I just paranoid? If there is reason for concern, what can/should I do about it?