Help- threats from ex b/f

Diamond And Rubies - posted on 05/11/2012

Date again,just give yourself standards. Like you I was in bad situations and realized. What am I doing? I wrote down what I wanted in someone and stuck to it. I'm happily married, minus his ex...
It happens, my sons father does the same thing with his sisters mother whenever they are mad at her. It has been twice and told the same thing with the red flags. Just keep doing what you are you . If she gets hurt, take a picture and document it so you don't forget if you are questioned.

Lillie - posted on 04/20/2012

Thank you ladies SO much!!! I felt like I was the only one going through this nightmare... It makes me so sick to know that people can do this out of anger and spite. I SO appreciate the advice and will take it...
Again I thank you so much!! I just want peace for my daughter and I..

Nicky - posted on 04/20/2012

ive been through this also!! same exact thing. my sons father would txt me and harrass me because i wouldnt go against my custody order and let him see my son more, he would call me a bad mom and whatever else he could think of. he would send the cops to my house at least twice a week if my son didnt call him. eventually the police got sick of it because they new my son was fine, i mean i do have sole physical residential custody of him all he has is visitation everyother weekend with no overnights. the ploice said eventually they would stop taking his calls because it was a big waste of time. the police told me to get an order of protection, so i did! when he new he couldnt harrass me by phone or in person he resorted to sending cps to my house everyother week along with the police. it was getting tiring and annoying at the same time i couldnt take it anymore. sending cps all the time is another form of harrassment he cant do it physically or verbally so this is what he was doing! then he txtd me that one last txt calling me a bad mother(when he had my son & i wouldnt let him stay the night) I told him to stop txting me and he continued. so when he got to my home to drop my son off i had the police waiting for him and he was taken to jail for violation of my order of protection! now i have a 2 yr stay away (from my home, work..etc...) no verbal harrassing, no txting he cant come on my property or harrass any of my family members. that was the best thing that could ever of happened. i suggest that you get an order of protection!! ASAP!! then if they keep on doing what they are doing they will go to jail!! goodluck hun, i know what your going through and i know its not fun and very stressful..i wish you luck!!