My daughter's father is messing with her head.

Misty - posted on 02/22/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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We had a relay long custody battle and got joint custody. It has been a game with him he must win at all cost. Now that its over he is still using her to try to get at me. What do I do?

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Misty - posted on 02/23/2012

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@Sofia I would love to have a lawyer do something but all they have told me is unless there is physically abuse (and thank God there's not) I can't prove anything. And in the courts eyes he looks like a great dad. My daughter is 7 years old at his house she has no rules, no bed time, doesn't even have to go to school. He tells her all the time that my husband and I are awful people. Tells her not to call me mommy to call me Bi**h, he gives her toys right before he drops her off then says "if you didn't have to go to your mom's house you could play with the toys.) So she is all upset every time she comes home. He does stuff like move and makes her lie about where there living and what goes on at his house. He has her so scared to tell me anything because he tell her if she does she wont get to see him anymore. Its driving me crazy I can't say anything about her dad because it will hurt her. And she is too young to relay get what is going on.

User - posted on 02/22/2012

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I'm so sorry to hear that. It's terrible when a parent puts their own selfish needs infront of their children's well being. He isnt thinking about what he's actions are doing to your daughter.

Can you expand a little and give us examples of what he is doing?

Depending on your particular situation, maybe you can go to the lawyer and ask to have visitations removed? Also depending on your daughter's age, you can talk to her about what daddy says/done and help her see how it is not a healthy thing.

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