Rachel - posted on 04/23/2009 ( 19 moms have responded )
When my ex and I split 18 months ago it was because he had an affair and was using recreational drugs. Since then he has accused me of being a heroin addict, of which i proved him wrong with a drug test, but my kids are coming home saying that daddy and nanna are going to take them away and that mummy is a whore!!! I have never bad mouthed my ex to the kids and have always explained that daddy and mummy just dont get along nymore but we both still love them very much! My kids are 3 and 4 years old and appear to have no discipline at their daddy's and spend most of their time at nannas house when he has them!!! life is getting tough and i'm unsure how to deal with this!!! someone please help, sometimes its as if my kids hate me and it's tearing my heart out!!!