Heather - posted on 07/27/2009 ( 41 moms have responded )
My husband kept my kids from me for 4 days because he found out I was dating someone, im those 4 days he kept calling and harrassing me and in one of those conversations his got his gf on the phone and she told me she has my kids call her mommy. My kids and 3 and 2 and would call anyone what they say their name is, but I didnt think they would call her that. I was pissed but brushed it off, because there was nothing I could do at the time. 3 wks have passed and he had the kids this past weekend, when I went to pick them up she walked outside before we left she said by to the kids and they said "bye momma" I was pissed I wanted to walk over there and do something I know I shouldnt. I looked at my ex told him to F off and drove away. I know he lets the kids call her that and tells them to call her that and Im furious. Ive tried to talk to him about it and let him know I would never let the kids call some guy I was dating dad(which I would never let them do) but he wont listen. He is so angry and pissed at me that he will find any way to get at me. And this is definitly the one thing that is driving me crazy, I cant stop dwelling over it.
Has anyone ever gone through this or have any suggestions on what I should do???