Leah - posted on 03/12/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
My husband left me for this girl about a year ago. He moved into her house about 1 week after meeting her. We were together for 8 years so obviously this all was alot to deal with for 2 young boys. At first I was very stubborn and wouldn't allow this new girlfriend around my boys because they emotionally couldn't handle that, Neither could I. His new girl has always been rude to me and its clear that she doesn't respect me as their mother. I recently started allowing the boys to go to their house and its been horrible. They come home upset every time because they say she wont leave them alone. She never lets them have time with their daddy and she is always in their face. I have told my ex time and time again that he needs to keep her away the best that he can but he wont do it. It seems like they are trying to force it. What kills me is that its emotionally damaging the boys and they don't care. My ex doesn't work because she supports him so I don't get child support yet and next month we go to court for our divorce and he is trying to get weekend visits. I absolutely don't think the kids are ready to stay at their house for a night, let alone a weekend so I'm really scared. She got him an attorney and I couldn't afford an attorney so I have less advantage here.I just need some advice on what to do, and if you think I'm overreacting or not with his girlfriend. Sorry for rambling on and on there is just alot to my situation. Thanks for reading!