Victoria - posted on 09/03/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
My ex husband & I have 2 sons ( 9 & 13) We have been divorced since 2004. We have a very good relationship ( took A LOT of work to get here) and he gets the kids every other weekend. His new GF movedin a few months ago after dating for about 2 years. I had not problems with her until my kids came home and one was crying saying he did'nt want to go to dads house anymore because of her. Of course I asked to see whats been going on since they had no problems before she moved in. My oldest can't stand her because she has no "common sense" and is " just stupid" ( BTW She is 22, ex is 31 & I am 29). The youngest told me that all his dad & her do is argue and fight and if he gets upset and tries to go to his room, he gets blocked by her and she'll tickle him and try to cheer him up even when all he wants is to be left alone. Both my kids have said that everything changed when she moved in, and that as long as she lives there, they don't want to go over there. Theres a lot of cussing, fighting and arguing over there, and I don't want to tell my ex who he can or can't date but I'm not sure what I should do. Any help or advice would be great!!