Debra - posted on 11/09/2009 ( 22 moms have responded )
My husband and I are not even divorced yet and he has already started dating a woman that goes to church with me and has children the same age as 2 of my boys that still live at home. They are in the same sunday school class and Wednesday night classes. He cannot have her around my boys until our divorce is final, but what happens then?? My boys do not want to be around her and her children because they say it is creepy for them. I know this sounds kind of like Jerry Springer, but I promise this is true. How do I make the transition easier for them because their father just keeps saying oh they will be fine and they will get over it. He spends one night a week for three hours and every other weekend with the boys and then spends the rest of the evenings and opposite weekends with her and her kids. Help this is really getting hard.