Joanna - posted on 11/07/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )
I have try everything. I hav e a daughter from a previous relationship. She is 9 yeras old. Me and my boyfriend just had a son. He is 8 months old. My step-son has been really mean to my daughter and has told her that he does not want to be friends with her. Her feelings are really hurt by that comment. My step-son is 11 years old. He does not listen to me anymore. Especially when I ask him to clean or do homework. He has been lying about things and I just don't know what to do anymore. I got him to see someone at the school he goes to because his mother is a real piece of work. He lives with us full time because his mother is not responsiable to raise him. She has been very negative about everything and that is why he acts like that. My sister is coming to visit and he is going with his mom for most of the time that she is down. He never wants to go see his mom but he knows that this will piss me off and his dad did nothing. I feel like my family is not good enough. My step-son complains that he is not part of this family but he makes no effort and trys everything to not be apart of it. Please help me!!!!