Michelle - posted on 03/02/2012 ( 12 moms have responded )
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My partyners 21yr old Daughter keeps coming back to live with us and when she comes she does no housework, Doesn't displine her children and I get very frustrated, her children hit my children. This is the third time she has come to live with us. I feel like she is trying to pick a fight with me while her father is working away at a week at a time so that she has an excuse to move back into her ex because her father said to her if she ever went back to her ex who abused her he would have nothing more to do with her. I am a big hearted person who would do anything for her but something is different this time. I feel she is just using my husband and myself because dad is a coal miner she's use to the good life but doesn't want to work to have the good life. She just has to ring and give dad a sob story and oh here have some money. Maybe there's some different standards for my children as he comes done hard on them when they do something wrong 11yr olds aren't adults and are going to try to get away with things. It is interesting to watch my hubby displine his grandchildren, he'll smack them then try to make them happy again he and his daughter both do this. I mean if your going to smack then don't smack then try to be their buddy mixed signals. The daughter doesn't even play with her children, I think her kids are so bored that they will play up just to get attention. If you have been in this situation I would appreciate some advice on how to handle it so that I'm not the one being blamed for the fall out that I feel is coming
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