Alyssa - posted on 01/07/2010 ( 24 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been separated for 2 years. We have a 3.5 year old daughter and he has an 8 month old with someone else. He and I have moved past all the hurt (for the most part) and get along pretty well. Our daughter spends a few afternoons and 1 overnight with him a week. He now has this girl and their baby living with him and AT LEAST once a week, my daughter randomly says "Mommy, I dont like _____." or "_____ is always mean to me." or one time she even told me that "_____ put me in time out and said you're a B*TCH to me." I have NO IDEA what to do anymore! I have spoken with her father and he just tries to brush it off like her feelings don't matter. He often says "She's only 3. She's making up stuff." She has even said to him in front of me some of these things and he hasn't even tried talking to her about it. I am sure he doesn't know what to do either, but its frustrating knowing that she really doesn't like or feel liked by this girl. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions as to what I can do to make my baby happier when she's at her dad's house? Thanks in advance!