Julia - posted on 12/01/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )
I am so frustrated. My ex and I have a working parental relationship. We talk about things that pertain to our daughter and that is all. I don't care what he is doing in his life unless it affects her and he doesn't care what I do in mine.
He is military stationed in Hawaii, my current hubby is military and we are in South Carolina. My ex has had my 3yr old since the beginning of Sept on thoughts that he was going to deploy in January.
When she is with me she loves Tinkerbell, Princesses, the color pink, and Disney movies. (I don't force them on her she is allowed to choose for herself) However when I talk to her on the phone all she talks about is Superman, Batman, Spiderman, Transformers so on and so forth. He allows her to watch the movies because he loves the movies himself. I wouldn't have a problem with this but it seems like when she is with him she almost forgets that she is a girl, she doesn't want anything to do with anything that she normally loves at my house. Am I over-reacting or do I need to have a discussion with my ex about this?