Hello

Stephie - posted on 10/26/2008

well sarina loves coloring but at my moms house which we r like always there haha she colors on everything and my ma and dad r pretty good about disiplining her the way I think and want her to but she is only really good for her daddy and he is on the road all week and she sees him on the weekends so its killing me haha but I will survive haha one thing I would do with sophie is find a babysitter for chelsea and take sophie for a weekend or a whole day out just you and her and ur bf/husband and just take that time for her so she knows that she still has u and she feels the way she did before chelsea came home..that is what my sister is doing with her 2 1/2 yr old and it works really good for her..maybe once a month or twice a month if you have the time just so she feels like she is still ur #1 I know u have to but chelsea doesnt know what that means yet haha..just a suggestion hehe I think that would really help you with that one

Michelle - posted on 10/26/2008

im getting there slowly its been soo hard but we didnt have any problems with sophie untill chelsea come home from hospital sophie used to be soo happy all the time and she hardley ever played up or cryed we try to spend just as much time with sophie and we do things together with sophie and chelsea and sophie helps me bath chelsea and all that sort off stuff so she is not left out but i just cant seem to work out why she is acting the way she is at them moment everyone says to me it terrible 2s but i dont know

i hate smacking too i feel soo bad but sometimes they need a little tap on the bum just so they know your serious well with sophie i have tryed a naughty chair when she plays up she has 2 sit on that for 3 mins, im tryed ignoring her, ive tryed bribing her lol, tryed a sticker chart for when she is good. i hope maybe some of these things may help

but the thing ive found thats stoped some of the naughtyness is i do lots of arts and crafts with sophie so she does not get bored and she dosent play up as much

Stephie - posted on 10/26/2008

I cant imagine having another one right now sarina doesnt listen to me at all she is a daddys girl..its hard cause when she does something naughty and I tell her no or that thats naughty she laughs at me when and if I spank her and it kills me because I feel like I cant disipline her..How are you holding up with ur little ones??

Michelle - posted on 10/26/2008

hi stephine im michelle i turned 21 in march this year and i have a 2 1/2 year old and a 15 week old litlle girls there names are sophie and chelsea