Helen - posted on 01/11/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
My husband and i have decided to separate for a trial, because the atmosphere in the house is unbearable, we have just stopped communicating, i moan at him for not being an interactive father, we have 3 boys aged 18 16 and 11. he says what ever he does around the house (which believe me is zero) is never enough. our 11yr old has ADHD and his behaviour at school is getting worse everyday, he has 2 TA's full time and has a statement, I have a servilely bad back, (not just aches and pains i mean full on back probs, i've had 2 back op's in the last 18months and take a heavy dose of strong pain killers just to be able to get up in the morning) my husband has never really showed me any emotion through this and doesn't seem to understand i still worry like crazy about the little one. is anyone going through anything similar? get in touch, i would love some advice.