Lindsay - posted on 01/08/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
I have a question, and I must admit it is kind of embarrassing. I used to have such an amazing social life when I was single. I had tons of friends, and would always go out and have fun. I met my now husband, and moved an hour away, and all of that slowly faded. I invested my time in him and our relationship and neglected my friends. It was also hard being so far away, but I also felt guilty in a way to leave him and go hang out with them. Fast forward a bit, and I now live in KY. We are married and have been here over a year. I have yet to make any long lasting friends here. When I would work at places, I would make friends with my coworkers, but rarely if ever hang out with them outside of work. For a couple of reasons, theyre into the party scene, like I used to be, being young, and I now do not do those things anymore. I have a family to take care of and come home to, more responsibility. Second is the guilt factor again. I feel guilty spending money on gas to go see them, as i live over an hour away. Anyways, I do not have very many friends, and was wondering if this is normal or not?