Carmen - posted on 02/09/2012 ( 36 moms have responded )
My husbuddy (husband/best friend) has asked me more times than I can count if I would...going on 4 years now and I've never done it. I was a virgin on our wedding night and took awhile for me to get comfortable with love-making...perhaps it's my past college life (hearing my girlfriends talking about giving oral to a guy or clips of movies/tv that portray oral sex as dirty, raunchy or something that makes my stomach cringe- that I find oral sex to be associated with (dirty, gross (my friends talking about their experiences). and /or uncomfortable. I havn't had the guts to talk to my Christian girlfriends about this because they know my husband and maybe I"m nervous about what they would say.
I also have TMJ and would hate to get my jaw stuck open..lol
On a serious note though, I've prayed about getting a clearer mind about this. I want my husband to be happy and have tried on few occasions but just can't do it (I get grossed out!!)
Is oral sex biblical? Sex for pleasure I know is..(I'm thinkin' this falls in that category) Do other Christian women feel this way??