Laura Zoey - posted on 07/21/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
My family is all very dedicated to waiting for the surprise. They are all saying that it is like cheating to find out before the birth. I found out with Eric as I wanted to feel more connected to him or her. We had names picked even before we were married so I was eager to start referring to him as Eric. My family respected our decision but none agreed with it. My friend isnt finding out with her current pregnancy and I feel like maybe I should think about the decision again for our next baby.
My gut still feels like I would not want to wait because it would feel like im not able to bond with my son or daughter until he/she is born but I feel its worth considering.
PS Im posting this in Christian mommies because I feel most moms here are so loving and kind that I respect you all's opinion more then my other communities.